Most women don't get it. They starve themselves on the latest Hollywood diet, gobble up beauty products like their potato chips and spend a small fortune on next season's fashions. Why? Because they think beauty is the answer.
Men aren't nearly as attracted by a woman's beauty as they are by her SENSUALITY.
At one time or another, every man has found himself mysteriously attracted to a woman who's nothing special to look at and wondered why. Here's a case in point from one of my male students:
"... I have never really understood exactly why I found some women more attractive even though they weren't as 'pretty'. Now I have a better idea thanks to you, Patty."
- Jason Sam ~ a man's perspective
You can be clinically obese or skinny as a rail. You can be 6'8" or 4'8". You can be a Cindy Crawford or a plain Jane. But you're either a sensual woman or you're not.
Believe me, I know first hand.
Five years ago, "sensual" is the last word I would have used to describe myself -- and I was a competitive ballroom dancer! Salsa, rumba, tango... these dances ooze sensuality. But I sure didn′t. And title after championship title evaded me.
To make matters worse, not only was my career stagnating, but my marriage was falling apart. I didn′t know it at the time, but I later discovered...
So here I was... career and marriage in the toilet... and then one day my dance coach interrupts my routine with the strangest question: I'll never forget it. He asked me, "Do you love yourself?" He went on to say he was not convinced that I loved and appreciated my body. At last, he had finally called me on my biggest weakness! My negative self image was coming through loud and clear. And it was time for me to do something about it.
Today, I'm proud to say...
In 2003, I won the Canadian Open Rhythm Ballroom Dance Championship -- evidence of my accomplishment.... on the dance floor anyway. But it wasn't until almost a year later that I could honestly say I was a sensual woman, wherever I was. The turning point was...
That was my wake-up call. That's when it hit me that I ought to apply what I'd learned on the dance floor to the rest of my life. And so began my divorce recovery.
Dating after divorce was easier and more fun than I could have imagined. Men began approaching me everywhere... in bars, at parties, in the park... even in line at the grocery store! At one point, I had given out my phone number to so many men (and I was being selective in my dating), I couldn't even remember who was calling me when I answered the phone! As great as this new found ability to captivate a man's attention was... it was really a by-product of a much bigger benefit...
It's hard to explain. My improved self image didn't happen overnight. It kind of snuck up on me as I put into practice what made the great ballroom dance champions so alluring. To this day, I'm still amazed that by simply acting sensual I became sensual! And, by pretending I loved my body, I really did grow to love myself! Sure, it was awkward at first. After all, I was faking it. But eventually going through the motions paid off. (According to Neuro Linguistic Programming (NLP), a form of behavioral therapy, psychological changes can be accomplished from the outside in. I guess the old adage, fake it 'till you make it, has been true all along!)
NOTHING is more attractive to a man than a woman who's comfortable in her own skin. Men are drawn to women who are confident, loving, and playful. They can't help it.
In fact, we're ALL attracted to these qualities in people.
When you love yourself... when your fire is burning bright... it shows. And like bees to honey, both men and women want to be with you because being around you makes THEM feel good too. Your confidence and ease with yourself are contagious.
And unfortunately, the reverse is also true: When you don't love yourself, it's pretty obvious. People may not be able to put their finger on it, but on some level they KNOW they'd rather be somewhere else with someone else. So if that's where you're at right now (and we've ALL been there -- often without realizing it), then you'll LOVE...
Back in December of 2003, an inspiring thought came to me: Why don't I share what I know by creating a workshop to help women get back in touch with their feminine energy? After all, I have plenty of teaching experience. (At that point I'd been teaching dance for 17 years.) I guess when you've "been there" and managed to turn your situation around, it's only natural to want to reach out and help others who want the same results. So, I compiled what I'd learned over the years about unleashing my own sensuality into a book and called it, "Sensuality Secrets: How To Attract Your Lover Without Being Noticed". I used to only have "hard copies" at my workshop presentations, but now I'm ripe with the times and have a digital version you can download right to your computer.
Sensuality Secrets: How To Attract Your Lover Without Being Noticed' contains a wealth of advice in 4 essential areas:
This book is chock full of secrets for attracting, charming and seducing whomever your heart desires. And all of the tips, tricks and techniques I reveal are illustrated (more than 80 photos in all!) -- so you can easily follow along. In a nutshell, my book helps you be the phenomenal woman you are. You'll radiate sensuality wherever you are, in all that you do. In a moment, I'll share some of the specific secrets you'll be privy to when you read my book, but first I want you to know that whether you're single or already in a relationship my book will help you. If you're SINGLE, my book will help you captivate a man's attention without being obvious. In fact, he'll have no idea why he can't take his eyes off of you! If you're already in a GOOD LOVE RELATIONSHIP, my book will make you even more irresistible. Now he'll really be sure he's with the woman of his dreams! If you need RELATIONSHIP ADVICE, my book will help you recapture the romance with proven flirting and seduction techniques. Whatever your situation is right now, these sensuality secrets will make it BETTER. And that′s because they'll REMIND you of what makes you a woman -- a powerful, sensual and glorious woman!
WOW! By now you're probably wondering, "What's in this book?"
Touching yourself helps you become more comfortable with your body and communicates confidence.
Touch yourself strategically to call attention to your most sensuous body parts and to tease the person watching. Be sure to touch yourself in a way that shows that you love yourself. He should want to love you the same way.
Upper Body Self-Touch
Gently touch your face. Start by tracing the jaw line left to right with your index finger to frame your face. Then with an upward stroke, switch to the middle finger and caress behind the ear. Continue with a downward stroke across the neck, over your clavicle, drawing your hand away before touching the upper breast. The last finger to leave is... You guessed it, the middle one.
That's just a small taste of what's in store for you! I could go on and on about "Sensuality Secrets: How To Attract Your Lover Without Being Noticed", but the bottom line is...
If you WISH you could feel good about your body, this book is for you. If you WANT to feel more beautiful, more self confident and sexier... this book is for you. If you LONG to feel exciting and magnificent as a woman, this book is definitely for you.
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“ I was working in NYC recently at a photography studio as the assistant stylist. Every now and then I had to go to the set and oversee the shoot, standing on the edge and observing. On the second or third day I remembered what I had learned from you. I put my feet in the position you described, bent one knee, thrust out the hip... It was like magic! Within minutes, it seemed almost instantly, everyone was trying to talk to me! Men and women! I couldn't believe it and still find it amazing thinking back! I am going to test it out tomorrow at the bank. THANK YOU!"
“I always thought that in order to be successful in the business world, a woman needed to tap into her male energy - but not anymore! I started incorporating your 'sensuality secrets' every day, and I've seen a noticeable difference in the way men react to me. You have literally transformed the way I view and experience my femininity and I'll never be able to thank you enough for that, Patty."
“... Well, it just so happened I had been reading your book on the plane a few days earlier. So as I proceeded to walk around downtown NY, your method on how a woman should walk in a sensual way was foremost on my mind. Suddenly, I had a fan club! ... I had one shop owner walk out onto the sidewalk to comment on what a beautiful woman I was. Another man said, under his breath, 'Now that's what I'm talking about!' as he watched me walk away. I was making the most subtle changes to my normal walk, but the response was amazing! It was hysterical and so much fun.
... I walked into a blues club... They both commented on what an attractive lady I was... It was your book that made everyone so responsive that evening. Apparently, I was open, confident and sensual. What a concept!! It worked in the city and it's worked every time and every place I've applied your methods... Thank you for the book, Patty."
“I used to live in Las Vegas and at a very young age (under 21) I would go into the casinos and not be bothered. Why? Because I walked and acted like I belonged there. Body language says a lot about you... Act proud, a little sexy... and don't forget to smile. That's how I played blackjack in the casinos on the strip in Las Vegas at the tender age of 19... It comes down to being proud of who you are, using your body language correctly. It got me lots of dates and a husband who I have been married to going on 23 years. Love your newsletter! Keep them coming!"
“I wanted to let you know how much I have been enjoying reading your book. This book is already helping me feel more confident and sensual on and off the dance floor. As critical and judgmental as society can be about how we as woman should look and act, I believe all women could benefit tremendously from this book."
Frankly, I consider "The Sensuality Secrets ebook" an absolute must for every woman.
Too many of us have compared (and criticized) ourselves against some crazy notion we have of the "ideal woman".
Let me tell you something...
The TRUE "ideal woman" is a woman who embraces all that she is... every aspect of herself. She LOVES herself. All of it!
And the best part is, the love she feels for herself is mirrored back to her by her partner, family, friends, colleagues and yes... even complete strangers!
I am so sure "The Sensuality Secrets ebook" will make the most of the attractive, sensual woman you are that I won't consider your order a done deal until you've had time to check out your kit and put some of the tips into action.
Imagine really believing and feeling you are beautiful, graceful and sexy. How would you carry yourself? How would men react to you?
In your mind's eye see that special someone being intrigued by you, fascinated by your confident demeanor. What might you do that you wouldn't dare do now?
How does it feel to be a sensual woman?
I am so excited for you! I can hardly wait to hear how "Sensuality Secrets: How To Attract Your Lover Without Being Noticed" has changed your life. Once you've tried out some of the secrets, please tell me about your experience. It's the success stories I live for :-)
Don′t put off releasing your sensual side another minute.
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Ballroom Dance Champion and Sensuality Expert
And author of "Sensuality Secrets: How To Attract Your Lover Without Being Noticed"
P.S. Isadora Duncan said it best, "A free spirit can only exist in a free body". Tap into that part of yourself that yearns to be liberated with my sensuality secrets. Place your order now and in just a few minutes you'll have your book downloaded to your computer.
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