Today's article, "The art of social networking: How I learned to love social networking," talks about how to be confident in a crowd and gain friends easily.
Today's Check it out Section showcases the Sexy in Seconds Program DVD Set. You will learn all the alluring secrets that make you more approachable. You'll see how to create angles and curves with your body that will enhance your feminine energy. The secrets behind why men are attracted to women are knowing the flirting techniques.
My close friend Amir talks about rebuilding your social life after divorce. He shares easy steps that transformed the way he approached meeting people. I especially resonate with Tip #4...a model I have always adopted in my own personal life. Everything he describes, I have witnessed and participated in. Join the social networking movement! Enjoy!
Thanks,
By: Amir Sabongui
A few years ago, I experienced the devastating effects of the break-up of my marriage. It was difficult on many levels, but one of the hardest things that I had to confront was being alone and having to rebuild a network of friends. As I sat there in front of the TV in my sweatpants eating breakfast cereal for supper, I quickly realized that this was NOT what I wanted the rest of my life to look like!! I had to go back out into the real world and learn how to create friendships and authentic connections with people.
Being in a relationship with the same person for 12 years means you share a lot of common friends and you start to take your social life for granted. As you focus more energy towards your partner in a relationship, you slowly start to close yourself off to the outside world and you start limiting your opportunities to meet new people.
Anyone who has ever experienced the break-up of a relationship knows that it usually also means losing a lot of friends that you either shared with your partner, or knew through your partner. This was exactly what happened to me.
This is especially difficult when those friends you do manage to keep are in serious relationships or have children because they hardly go out anymore. Its even worse if you are working full time and are no longer in a life situation where it is easy to meet people, like being in college. Eventually, you start losing the important life skill of making new friends and your social network starts to shrink.
I was faced with the daunting task of either rebuilding my social life and start dating again, or else be faced with a life of solitude. Neither option was particularly appetizing at first. I had forgotten how to date and how to make new friends.
But once I learned the principles of social networking, my social life exploded! Not only did I start enjoying meeting new people, I got so good at it, that within a few months, I was able to host a party for over 150 of my new friends.
In the ten steps I list below, I'll show you exactly how I did it:
1. Be a renaissance person: Learn a little bit about EVERYTHING. Every invitation to step out of our comfort zone is an opportunity to grow. The essence of the Renaissance Person:
a. Embrace excellence, beauty and aesthetics as a core value in life
b. Know a little bit about everything
2. Be your best so you can attract the best: Cultivate self-improvement: Eliminate all neediness, and be a giver not a taker
3. Start with positive intent: Your mission: make new friends ... with everyone ... period. Do not have any ulterior motives when meeting people.
4. Be a social "NEXUS": Be a social leader who initiates outings and events.
5. Be a 'YES-Man': Get into a habit of saying 'YES' to social opportunities.
6. Be a great conversationalist: Be interested and you'll be interesting. Dialogue, don't monologue. Every new meeting is an opportunity to delight or disappoint. Just remember to keep it real
7. Connect: Use your body-language, eye-contact & tone of voice to create authentic connections with other people
8. Follow-up: Don't stalk & Don't get stale - always make an effort to reconnect with people you've recently met.
9. Consolidate: Respect social boundaries,
10. Reciprocate: Always return social favours and never become a social parasite.
Are you in charge of the messages you're putting out there? Do you realize what your non-verbal messages are saying to others? Your confidence is mirrored by the way you move, and Girlfriend, it makes no difference what size you are or what color your lip gloss is, it matters how you feel, and the best way to show that off to the world is in the way you move that beautiful body!
I put together a stunning collection of 4 DVDs, loaded with my very best, tried and true secrets for attracting, charming and seducing whomever your heart desires and here are just some of the secrets you'll discover inside my new DVD collection.
Here's my tip for you: Think about these 3 important facts:
1. Most people form their opinion of you within the first 90 seconds.
2. Communication is 60% non-verbal and 40% verbal.
Of the verbal portion, only 10% is attributed to words themselves, the other 30% derives from how the words are spoken and tone of voice.
3. Imagine the implications of THIS, when you start understanding the impact your subtle movements have on others. Just by the way you curve your hips and cross your legs can go from frumpy sailor/scout to sensual diva and you never have to say a WORD to reel him in!
And it doesn't matter if you're seducing a guy at a party, going in for a new job interview, or standing on a stage giving a presentation. These are the tools that help you feel more confident and radiant than ever!
I've just got to share this with you, because your DVD's have quite literally changed my life!!
A month ago I truly believed at 53, menopausal, a little over weight, that I was one of those women of a 'certain age' who become invisible, and my confidence and self-esteem were not in a good place. Frankly I didn't know how to change myself, or my life and I was SO stuck and downhearted. I came across your DVD clips on YouTube and started to play, and I mean really play with your ideas .... and something miraculous happened .... I began to find myself!! When you are open to learning the teacher will come Straight away I ordered your extraordinary DVD set and I began to practice, practice, practice. The mental and emotional changes I've experienced so far as I begin to connect with my body, my heart and my unique and glorious sensuality have given me a joy for life, a deep warmth and openness when talking to men (and not just men, everyone!). I've charmed the postman, my boss, and male colleagues who have ignored me for years now seek me out. I was even asked on a da te by a tall dark handsome 22 year old guy!! But this is so much more than being a superficial ego trip for me, it truly is about transformation, about coming home to myself. It's about not being afraid to be seen, whatever my age or size, because sensuality is the gift I've awoken in myself, and men are drawn to the light that shines from a woman who is in touch with herself ... they simply can't help it! When I know how to truly understand my feminine sensuality I feel complete and can move forward in life with love, fun, playfulness and a healthy irreverence for all the 'games' we play as men and women. I feel confident to know my own mind, make decisions and find boundaries, and my mind has followed my body.
And I tell you, wonderful Patty, I'm only on DVD 2!!!!!!!!! I would be thrilled if you wanted to share some my delight with other members, because I'm so happy I've started my sensual journey.
Love and gratitude to you
Sensually yours
Karen
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