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Your body language can affect the way others view you

By Patty |

In my previous post I told you about a new theory to know if I was facing the right man for me. But as I discovered the people I enjoyed spending time with, I also realized that my expressions were sending messages without saying a word.

All of this make sense to me because I’ve recited these techniques many times in my career.

In ballroom dancing, I had to practice eye contact and facial expressions. I had to be clear with where I was looking and for how long because the combination of both elements created different outcomes.

There were moments in my dancing career where I needed to look dominant, engaged, arrogant, energetic, seductive or perhaps even sad.

The physical difference was subtle, however combining the right eye contact with proper intention created the necessary outcome.

Do you think about the image you are portraying?

Are you conscious of the messages you are sending?

The next time you are having a conversation with someone, pay attention to how you listen.

Are you using your eyes to watch, learn and understand?

Are you nodding and smiling to demonstrate consideration?

I know this sounds rehearsed, but none of this works without genuine intention.

As you watch for this in others and pay attention to yourself, you will gain knowledge that will heighten your intuition.

You will begin to recognize if what you are feeling is truthful or not.

To become aware of your own body language, you need to be in tune with the present and start paying attention to what others are doing.

So, for today, start looking out for eye contact and facial expressions from those around you. What do you like and dislike in what you are seeing?

It’s time to understand how your body language can affect the way others view you.

Yours sincerelly,

Patty

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