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An Evening of Pleasure and Harmless Fun

By Patty |

Hello, all!

I thought I’d share my recent evening of indulging in sensual food, liquids and atmosphere. Last weekend I was in New York City for a day of tango dancing, shopping and dining delicacies.

This was the first time I danced Argentine Tango in months and ooh what a welcomed return I had! My instructor was a handsome, charming and seductive Argentinian man by the name of Walter Perez. My dear friend Kevin and I took a private dance class together. We listened intently to his instructions…his accent alone made both of our juices flow. Since I am fluent in 3 languages I may have developed an ear for vocal intonations, therefore at times I had to translate what “el professor” was telling Kevin to do.The infamous Stepping Out Studio in New York

My close to orgasmic moment happened when he took me in his arms to describe what he was looking for from Kevin as a leader. Oooh, and what messages his hands were sending. Every touch was purposeful, focused and strong…can you picture what I’m talking about?

Then it was Kevin’s turn to dance with him…lucky poodle! It was priceless to see the same orgasmic expression on his face. Then, Walter Perez went to describe what he expected from me as the follower. His words were;

“The woman decides the speed in which he maneuvers you. You must tame him!”

Isn’t that an exquisite thought? Surrender to him, yet tame him…where have I heard that before? My vacation in Argentina flashed before my eyes.

I looked at Walter, gave him a coy smile and proceeded to dance with Kevin. This time I practiced what I preached…“fake it, till you believe it”. Play the part of the woman the director was asking me to be, use my resources and just do it.

As Kevin and I danced our last dance, we let ourselves go knowing we didn’t understand all the rules needed to create the master piece Walter wanted…however we were both willing to learn them, in the length of time needed.

So what does a gay man and a fruit fly do after a fierce dance class…unwind with afternoon cocktails and shopping!

We walked for 4 hours and insensible me was wearing 3 inch heels. We finally stopped at an outdoor park to rest our feet and make ourselves beautiful to prepare for our dinner rendez-vous at the Buddha Bar Restaurant! It was such a “Sex and the City” moment: I sat on a park bench, fixing my clothes, and putting on makeup while my gay friend paid me compliments, and then off we were to the posh restaurant.

(As a side note, I must emphasize the importance of having gay friends in your life. They’re honest, sensitive, entertaining and understand the value of great shoes!)

We met our friends at a very sexy, urban chic and seductive restaurant that was playing
fantastic music. (If you ever plan on hosting a party, you must have a Buddha Bar cd playing in the background). Buddha Bar New York Restaurant

The evening started with cocktails. I ordered the “Moulin Rouge”. It was a mixture of several types of alcohol with a douse of crushed blueberries…ooh my! Once everyone arrived, we were seated at a round table facing a monumental black statue of a “Buddha”. We danced, ate and drank all evening. We even shared food to explore everyone’s choice of savory perceptions. In fact, we fed each other…so cool. It was a playground for 3 gay men, 2 fruit flies, and 1 straight man (he has a blue card that turns purple when he plays with us) to let go!

The reason I share this with you, is to remind you how a day of vacation can turn into a day of heightening your senses…and isn’t that what sensuality is all about. Exploring the sights, sounds, smells, palatable and tangibility of your environment. With the right people, you can surrender to a day of pleasures.

So, my intent for you is to plan 1 day of pleasure. That’s right…pleasure. How can you delve into all of your senses? Get a bunch of girlfriends and gay friends (if you have any) and have some harmless fun! You heard me…think about enjoying all of your senses. Take mental notes and feel the thrill of the moment. You spend most of your days working hard to keep up with demands of life, don’t forget to please yourself.

Be sure to let me know how your delightful, joyful and gratifying day went.

Sensually yours,

Patty

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