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Top mistakes women deal with when speaking to men…or to anyone! Part 1

By Patty |

Many women underestimate the power of their voice. Not just the words, but the actual tone and cadence of the speaking voice. Knowing what to avoid when speaking to men — or to anyone — is the key to aural seduction.

I should go into this article pointing out that I know you don´t necessarily want to seduce everyone you speak to. When I talk of seduction in terms of attracting “anyone”, I want you to keep in mind the actual definition of seductive: “Having alluring, tempting or enticing qualities.” And really, there are very few instances where you wouldn´t want to have those qualities. Think about it: if you are in sales for a living, then what you want is to tempt and entice your potential client into purchasing your product or service. If you want a favor from a co-worker or the best service at a restaurant, then you can build rapport – and get what you want – using these very same qualities. We all know women who seem to get their way all the time, right? It´s because they know how to talk the talk. So don´t think the only application for what I’m teaching you is romantic.

However…the romantic application is likely why you’re here, so I will focus on common mistakes that actually work against you when you’re trying to attract a man:

Talking too fast
Slow down, it´s not a race! Speaking too quickly betrays your nerves, making you seem less than confident. It also makes it almost impossible for a man to be truly attentive when your words are speeding by too fast for him to follow. Speak more slowly and enunciate carefully; your words will have more impact, and you will seem together and self-assured.

I will talk about the following mistakes in my next post, so don´t lose it!

Sincerely yours,

Patty Contenta

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