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Finding the right approach to men
By Patty |
As I promised you in my last post in this one I will talk about the opposite side of the spectrum when you want to be noticed, so you try too hard.
Maybe you see men at restaurants and, rather than flirting with him with your eyes and body language, you immediately approach him without giving him a chance to register what’s happening. You take him off guard and he suddenly feels cornered. This method doesn´t work either.
Your approach is way too strong.
You need to find the balance between subtlety and taking charge, so that you can learn to land on a man’s radar before he has even met you!
Soon I will bring you a technique that will help you a lot! It is a technique called “mirroring” and goes beyond words and looks.
Mirroring body language works because, subconsciously, we all seek out people who are versions of ourselves. It’s the ultimate way to build familiarity before you even exchange words. By mirroring his moves, you improve your rapport with him and make him feel accepted and flattered.
In ballroom dancing, for example, there is often the challenge for partners to keep up with one another. Witness the playful dueling in a mambo or salsa. Mirroring presents partners with the challenge of showing their stuff and finding common ground.
Curious about this technique? You will find all about it in my next post!
Sensually yours,
Patty Contenta
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